The Man You Want To Be

A 90-day transformational training program to gain clarity and confidence, connect with like-minded men, feel inspired, receive support in a judgement free environment, and break through barriers to live life on your terms.

To submit your application for the training fill out the form below. Once we receive your submission, we will review it and arrange a one-on-one call with our lead facilitator to determine whether the Training program is a good fit for you.

Our training program offers a practical and down-to-earth approach to personal growth, prioritising real-life experiences over theory.

With experienced facilitators, small group dynamics, and a focus on trust-building, the training creates a supportive environment for your journey.

We focus on consistency and long-term commitment, and our diverse global community fosters inclusive learning.

Through embodied learning, a flexible structure, and continuous support, we provide a transformative journey tailored to your individual needs.

What men say

“Redefining who I am as a man had profound consequences both in my confidence and in self-realisation. I feel I have now tapped into my power which was strangely always there, but frustratingly inaccessible.”
Adam
Adam
“The empathetic yet ruthless approach to calling out any BS is scary but ultimately empowering. Not for the faint hearted, but if you’re open to facing the fullness of your truth and pushing yourself across boundaries and achieving your full potential this is the place to be. The simple result - a life of no regrets!”
Keith
Keith
“In this space, where men with a range of experience and skill elevate each other, I found that a light is shined on aspects of self that is often neglected or misunderstood.”
Michael
Michael
“I realised how important it is to have a close circle that holds me accountable for my actions and is there to listen if I need it (even if I don’t know that I need it). I had the chance to dig deep into the psyche of 7 incredible men, helping me to rebuild the foundations of my own authenticity.”
Andreas K
Andreas K
“I am now happier with who I am and with what I have achieved so far in my life. My relationship with my wife has become stronger and this has led to a more loving and respectful union. I also go out into nature and I climb mountains, which is something I had never even thought about before joining the group.”
Ronan
Ronan
“This week has seen a massive unexpected challenge in business. I have faced it positively and calmly. Prior to the programme I would have felt very negative, angry, confused and bitter. I now see it as an opportunity. The work we did in the group has been life changing.”
Ed N
Ed N
“Because of this work I made peace with who I was and that affected all my relationships, specially with my partner. It has been really meaningful to me to be able to establish a partnership based on mutual respect, admiration and trust.”
Jorge
Jorge
“I’m more self-confident, succinct, and clear in my message. I feel relaxed, at home with myself, and understand my patterns better. I can intentionally shape how I present myself and where I want to be. I have more time and resources for what truly matters to me and I no longer feel overwhelmed which is freeing and fulfilling.”
Christof
Christof
“This work has given me access to knowledge and tools that have improved my life dramatically, challenging me to step up and face it with full presence. I feel stronger, clearer, more committed and more honest.”
Vince
Vince
“I am much more confident in myself. I know myself better and am more comfortable in my skin. I know that intentional change for the better is possible and that I can safely trust my own answers and be open enough to listen to others suggestions.”
Ed T
Ed T
“The biggest changes I've seen in myself as a result of the work we've done include slowing down mentally and emotionally and delving deeper into consistent spiritual practice and work.”
Anish
Anish
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words from the founder of on being man

Yaron Engler

For several years, I explored various formats of men’s groups, seeking a reliable, consistent, intense, and trustworthy space for personal growth. However, I couldn’t find one that met all my requirements.

In 2019, I created the community I had envisioned, inviting men to join me in exploring the broader context of masculinity. Since then, the community has thrived, attracting committed men from around the world who desire a solid agenda and an honest, direct approach to personal growth and connection.
Yaron Engler headshot

Frequently asked
questions

Joining a group of men committed to self-development can be both exciting and intimidating. You might wonder, ‘Will I connect with the other men?’ or ‘What kind of environment can I expect?’ Or ‘It is a macho or some kind of a hippie place?’. These are all common questions, and ones we’re familiar with. To give you a sense of how we work, we keep things down to earth, direct, and warm, focusing on creating an inclusive, non-judgmental space where honest conversations and genuine growth practices lead to deep personal progress. To get a feel for our approach and the spirit of the community, you’re welcome to join a free session of the Men’s Circle. It’ll give you a strong sense of how we run sessions, communicate, and create space for growth. 

One of our key agreements is Self-Honouring, which emphasises respecting your values, boundaries, and well-being. You have the freedom to decide how much you want to engage in discussions and practices. Think of it like a traffic light: the green zone is comfortable but keeps you stuck, and men in this training aren’t here to stay there. The amber zone is where true growth happens, challenging you within your boundaries. The red zone pushes too far, and we ensure no one goes there. The aim is to spend as much time as possible in the amber zone—this is where real progress happens. Remember, you’re always in control of your journey. To get a sense of how it’s done you can join a free session of the Men’s Circle. 

Our facilitators have dedicated many years to their own self-development and growth. They are all trained and possess years of experience in coaching and facilitation, both within and beyond the realm of men’s groups. To learn more about our facilitators, visit the About page.  If you’re feeling called to do this training and want to connect with a facilitator to discuss further and get all the details you need, you can book a discovery call here.

In addition to continued discussions and feedback opportunities you’ll experience: 

  • Meditations 
  • Breathing exercises
  • Mindfulness practices
  • Embodiment practices 
  • Anger management practices
  • Shame/judgments release practices
  • Cleansing & Clearing exercises (information, intakes, people)

You’ll join a total of 12 sessions: the first is a three-hour kickoff to build trust, followed by 11 two-hour sessions. Alongside these, there’ll be short content videos, weekly check-ins with a chosen man, and assignments. With 3-4 hours a week, you’ll do well—but as always, the more you put in, the more you’ll gain

The CROP cycle is a straightforward framework created by Yaron Engler, Founder of On Being Men. It’s designed to support each individual’s unique pace and intensity while ensuring the group advances together. To learn more about the CROP cycle, click here.

Yes! We invite you to  join a free session of the Men’s Circle to get a sense of our approach and the community’s spirit. While it’s not part of the actual training, it offers a solid introduction to how we work, communicate, and create a supportive space. Although the training itself is much more intensive, designed for deeper exploration and growth, the Men’s Circle will give you a feel for our style and tone, helping you decide if this is the right fit for you.

We get it—spending money on personal growth can feel odd, even selfish. It’s normal to feel uncertain, especially with the noise from society, family, and friends telling us it’s unnecessary. But if you’re here, there’s probably a part of you that feels this is something you truly want to do and we’re happy to help you figure out if this could be the right direction for you. 

Every one of us, the men behind the scenes of On Being Men has invested in our own growth, and we know it’s a big step. If you’re still on the fence, we’d like to invite you to  join a free session of our Men’s Circle, no strings attached. It’ll give you a sense of how we work, and if you’re still interested, you can book a discovery call with a facilitator to go a bit deeper and see how that feels. We’re here to help you make a choice that feels right for you.

You can join our weekly Men’s Circle sessions, where you’ll experience open discussions and deep connections with other like-minded men. Together, we explore areas like purpose, relationships, emotions, and finances. The Men’s Circle is a monthly subscription, but as a participant in On Being Men training, you’ll get free access.

Many men also choose to add one-to-one coaching sessions, tailored to support their personal growth needs. Packages start at £1,000, providing a focused path to build clarity, confidence, and courage. If you’re interested, we can discuss one-to-one coaching during your discovery call for the training.

Men who complete The Man You Want to Be training, can also continue with the Authentic Leadership Training to deepen your personal and professional leadership skills.



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